IT IS BEST TO LISTEN MUCH, SPEAK LITTLE, AND NOT BECOME ANGRY...Never allow anger to control you. In no place is this more important than in your marriage. Practice sel-control by pausing for ten seconds before you answer angry or critical remark.
When you respond too quickly, you tend to overeact and fan the flames of conflict. A timely pause not only gives you a chance to speak calmly, rationally, and thoughtfully, but it also provides an opportunity for your mate to reconsider their words. It's difficult to maintain a loving home life if we allow anger to engage us in conflict. But it will do wonders for your relationship when you handle volatile situations with finesse.
Instead of sharpening your claws, give yourself a chance to pause!!
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